What is chemistry in dating
All you know is that you let him into your heart and fell in love. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests.” You’ve probably realized this, as nearly all of your lust and attraction has NOT resulted in stable, happy, long-term relationships.
Attachment is the bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many years and even decades.
I had never felt so drawn to someone before, and we shared close, deep (non-physical) times together.
When he dumped me, I felt my heart would never mend, and three years later, I still struggle with that relationship loss.
From what I am reading in your blog, I’m supposed to be happy with this guy. But I feel like I should look forward to seeing him more. Like the idea of him is better than the actual person. I should point out that I’m young (25) and attractive.
, "is that cocktail of ingredients in which attraction, interest, desire, curiosity, and longing all come together.
You're turned on to the person, and you experience it on a physical as well as an emotional level.
And yeah, he said he loved you – and, for a time, you never felt more connected to another human being. What I’d like you to consider is that the EFFECTS of lust and attraction have been HURTING your chances of finding love.
I mean, yeah, you loved him – intensely, unconditionally, with all of your being. The reason I’m sharing this with you is not to convince you that you’ve never truly been in love (although it’s possible).