Dating man moves too fast
Unfortunately, some of us dismiss those red flags because S/he's fine, fear of being alone, or you hope that they will change.
You see, sometimes people introduce you to their representatives, and they put on their absolute best; the best outfits, their best behavior and the best presentation of who they want you to see.
They are always quick to suggest hanging out at your place. This could clearly be a sign of them hiding something, even if that something is you and should definitely be considered a relationship red flag.
Maybe their home includes a family he/she hasn't told you about; or maybe their home is very messy.
To some, this might sound like the dream scenario, but she felt like it was way too much way too soon; she was trying to pump those brakes hard. Because unfortunately—and especially in the beginning of a relationship—we’re rarely on the same page.
So how do we align our speeds so that everyone feels happy and comfortable without ruining the momentum entirely? Usually, I think the culprit for things moving too fast is excitement.
So even acknowledging that can be a helpful first step.
In relationships it really is true that patterns develop early on and if you don’t want this to be one, nip it in the bud, or bid that bud farewell.
But back to the good gal/guy you’re seeing (let’s be optimistic, shall we?